Feel safe to be truly yourself and get ready to succeed in love when the right person comes along.

From the desk of Alice Ntobedzi Melbourne Australia

Do you feel like lasting love is the only thing missing from your life right now?

For many high achieving women, no matter how successful they were in their careers, the lack of companionship and a long history of dead-end relationships was negatively affecting the way they felt about themselves, their worth, and their future.

The bad news is that...

We've often been sold a lie - a lie that relationships are easy, effortless, and are all about romance. Although this approach to love is appealing and exciting, it doesn’t provide strategic preparedness towards creating a long-lasting relationship.

In reality, successful healthy and long-lasting relationships take work, and laying a strong foundation for a successful relationship begins with inner work focused on knowing, valuing, accepting, and embracing yourself as you really are

The good news is that...

That forming and maintaining a close, healthy, loving and strong relationship is a skill, which can be learned, practiced, and mastered over time.

From having a deep understanding of yourself, a mindful awareness of yours and your partner's needs, a skillful way of communicating, among many others are psychological skills that anyone can learn and all of which can help you to feel love safe.

In fact, I have spent the last 19 years working with driven, determined, and all-round successful women

Women who are leaders in their work and their life, yet for whom a lasting, loving relationship has been the one thing out of their reach.

Which is why I have developed a brand-new program that is designed to take you by the hand and gently show you how to become a leader in love, the way you already are a leader in other aspects of your life.

What is LoveSafe?

The Love Safe is your inner map of confidence in your ability to trust yourself to connect and create lasting love without hiding who you are.

FACT: research shows that the ability to feel safe is essential to forming secure relationships.

This is because safety is an innate need for attachment.

When you feel unsafe you cannot get what you truly need, you cannot be yourself, you cannot be at ease and be truly available and feel cared for, loved and accepted.

In other words, feeling safe in yourself enables you to feel secure in a relationship. You can see how this makes sense, right?

On the other hand, when you feel unsafe within yourself you will also feel insecure in your relationships. In this case you may opt to stay single as that way you feel in total control of your safety as compared to having to be in a relationship and having to face the challenges that hinder you from securely connecting with a partner.

But, no matter the challenges or roadblocks you have faced up until now, you can EXPERIENCE THE TRANSFORMATIVE POWER OF FEELING SAFE to be yourself and foster confidence within yourself and inside a relationship.

What Love Challenges Have

You Faced?

Rumi, the greatest mystic and poet, says: "your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

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I discovered that successful women face unique love challenges that sabotage their ability to feel safe and secure to connect and create lasting love.

PERHAPS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS YOU STRUGGLE TO…

Feel seen, heard and understood

Experience a deeper connection and a sense of trust

Express how you feel (both positive or negative feelings)

Communicate your needs

Voice your opinions out of fear your partner might leave

OR PERHAPS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS YOU…

Don’t have a problem getting into a relationship but haven’t blossomed into a lifelong partnership

Crave and fantasise about attracting forever exciting love that is full of endless passion

Have given up and are convinced that a relationship is too much hard work

Have convinced yourself that your life is complete as it is and a relationship is not really that important after all

Feel stuck and confused about where to begin to find love

IF YOU'VE RESONATED WITH ANY OF THESE STATEMENT S THEN THE LOVE SAFE IS MADE FOR YOU

Meet Love Coach!

Hi, my name is Alice Ntobedzi, and I am a Clinical Psychologist and a Love Coach with more than 19 years in the field, working with individuals just like you.

I developed the Love Safe Method, which is my unique methodology for helping high achieving women succeed in love. I would like to add that the topic about finding love is dear to my heart, having also journeyed through some struggles in this area of my life.

How does the LoveSafe work?

Love Safe is a women only online coaching program designed to give you the skills you need to conquer this last frontier of your life and finally succeed in finding (and keeping) real, lasting love.

Love Safe includes:

fortnightly coaching sessions for 3 months, to set the goals you’d love to achieve, and focus on exploring key themes of the program.

You will be given personalized activities and exercises to complete between sessions.

We monitor your progress and tackle any stuck points along the way.

Becoming Love Safe

The Love Safe Method is a step-by-step inner transformation program founded on attachment science and neuroplasticity, and designed to support you in developing the skills you need to find and keep the love you know you deserve.

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The Love Safe Method includes five key stages.

The core of the program is all about becoming aligned with the version of you that is ready for love.

We will take a closer look at your relationship beliefs, expectations, emotions, and behaviours.

We’ll start to transform your relationship patterns and heal the way you relate to your current (or future) partner.

You’ll be able to show up, put yourself out there and be all in, even when you can’t control everything involved when connecting with someone.

What You’ll Learn

Here is an outline of the modules for learning about the Love Safe method:

Module 1: Create Your Relationship Vision

Understand where you are currently and where you have been stuck and side-tracked in the past.
Define the kind of relationship that you'd love to have and why it is important to you.
Envision your life-long love and feel excited about the new life you are creating.

Module 2: Re-write Your Love Blueprint

Reverse the cycle of love pain to understand the reasons why you struggle to feel love safe.
Uncover how your current identity has been holding you back in your ability to safely give and receive love.
Understand why self-worth is such a big deal when it comes to love.
Unlock the secrets of your unconscious mind to allow you to feel safe to love and to be loved in return.

Module 3: Clarify Your Ideal Partner

Decode your love attraction patterns and heal from attracting unhealthy partners.
Understand how your underlying unconscious patterns influence who you attract.
Learn how to determine who is compatible with you.

Module 4: Become Your Loving Best

Learn the #1 tool for shifting negative states and cultivating self-love.
Re-write your “I’m a failure at love” story.
Discover how you are already the one your potential partner is also looking for.

Module 5: Hone Your Relationship Skills

Effectively use key relationship skills to navigate giving and receiving love, overcoming challenges, and building a strong team with your partner.
Unlock the secret to creating peace and harmony in your relationship.
Feel confident about knowing what your relationship needs to stay on track.

Module 6: Set Off on Your New Aligned Love Adventure

Create a strategic approach to bringing the relationship you want to your life.
Courageously apply Love Safe in your love life.
Next steps in your Love Safe journey

So, What Does It Include?

#1

6 Fortnightly coaching sessions

Discover, explore, understand, and begin to heal previous relationship wounds, and start learning new skills.

#2

Fortnightly email progress prompts

Receive support every step of the way via email check-ins.

#3

Self-discovery guides and activity plan

Learn how to purposefully reflect and identify unhelpful relationship patterns.

#4

Personalized Toolkit

Walk away feeling equipped with personal love safe highlights.

Who is The Love Safe for?

The Love Safe coaching program is not for everyone.

To get the most out of our work together so you can achieve lasting positive change, I suggest that:

You either are currently single, or in a new relationship, or have been unsatisfied in previous relationships.

You know you deserve better in your intimate relationships beyond just the short-lived romance of dating.

You know deep down the love you seek is out there, you just need a little help deepening your belief that you can succeed.

You are willing to do the "inner work" and are motivated to take total responsibility for how you feel in your relationship.

You realise your previous relationships were the result of absence of strategy and lack of preparation.

You have received relationship coaching in the past yet did not create the results you wanted and now you are looking for a fresh perspective.

You are ready now to take things to the next level as a successful woman deserving a lasting and happy relationship:-)

This Program is About Learning How to Feel Safe to be Yourself and deserving of love not how to feel safe when you are in a genuinely toxic or dangerous situation.

That means, this opportunity is not for you if you are...

In a relationship that you know deep down is not good for you, but you’re struggling to find a way to leave - if this is you, some 1:1 counseling from a qualified professional may be a better first step.
Currently experiencing any form of (physical, emotional, financial) abuse, intimidation, or domestic violence within your current or recent relationship or feel afraid for your health and safety.
If you feel that your relationship is abusive, it is so important to seek the right advice and support. Below are links for Australian resources and services that might be able to provide appropriate support for you.

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Let’s Summarise

The Love Safe is an in-depth individual transformation program that requires a certain level of

commitment from you to ensure that you achieve the desired results.

WHAT YOU GET:

6 Fortnightly coaching sessions for 3 months

Email check-ins between sessions

Self-discovery guides, prompts and road plan

Personalized love safe highlights

Your Investment:

Option 1

$400

3 Monthly payments of AUD

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Option 2

$1200

Full payments of AUD

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To see whether this is the right next step for you… book in for a 15 minutes Relationship Clarity Call.

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Program FAQs

Do I have to get into online dating as part of this program?

No, and that's because this program is focused on equipping you with the skills you need to safely connect and tackle the challenges you’ve had to create lasting love. Once you have developed the skills you can be confident to show up in any situation whether online or offline (your personal choice outside this program).

Will this program help me find the love of my life?

The program is about helping you gain clarity on what you want in a relationship and equips you with the skills to love wholeheartedly when the right person comes along.

Do I need therapy to get over my past relationship problems?

This program is not a substitute for therapy. Therefore, if you are already in therapy you are encouraged to continue with that. Or, if you are not in therapy while taking part in this program but the need arises for you to do so, you will be encouraged to seek additional help outside of the program.

What if I had a traumatic childhood or past abuse?

This program is not about addressing pervasive relationship trauma. In that case therapy with an appropriately qualified professional would be a more suitable option. This program is best suited if you have addressed issues related to trauma and abuse and are now looking to develop relationship success skills.

I’m already in a long-term relationship, would this program help me?

Yes, if you would like to learn to focus on becoming the best version of yourself in your relationship and also improve your relationship.

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